WomenNow Forum - Recent questions tagged relationship http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=tag/relationship Powered by Question2Answer I m jealous when my bfs friend comes to visit http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1371/i-m-jealous-when-my-bfs-friend-comes-to-visit Hi, im 24f my bfs friends visit us frequently. i am jealous because how close is a lady friend to my bf <br /> <br /> what can i do? i thought i am over it but not Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1371/i-m-jealous-when-my-bfs-friend-comes-to-visit Sat, 06 Feb 2021 08:37:33 +0000 Met a guy on Instagram we like each other. I want to continue that relationship. but my friends http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1350/instagram-each-other-want-continue-that-relationship-friends My friends are saying that internet relationships do not long last. But I like him and there is a good connection between us.<br /> <br /> What to do? Your opinion helps :) Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1350/instagram-each-other-want-continue-that-relationship-friends Wed, 13 Jan 2021 19:30:41 +0000 I feel like forced when kissing my boyfriend http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1344/i-feel-like-forced-when-kissing-my-boyfriend <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">I want to kiss him, but when kissing him I feel like I am forced into doing it.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">Why is it happening to me? I like him and love him too.</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1344/i-feel-like-forced-when-kissing-my-boyfriend Sat, 19 Dec 2020 19:06:16 +0000 I like this guy but he is not showing interest in me. Any solution? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1341/like-this-guy-but-he-is-not-showing-interest-in-me-any-solution <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">I like this guy and i said to him for couple of weeks before but he did not respond and I don't know what to do.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">Should I tel him again or should I talk to him.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">What should I do?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1341/like-this-guy-but-he-is-not-showing-interest-in-me-any-solution Fri, 04 Dec 2020 19:01:20 +0000 my husbands parents dont like me, what to do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1340/my-husbands-parents-dont-like-me-what-to-do They dont like me from the start, but after the kid they started pushing me away. What to do?? Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1340/my-husbands-parents-dont-like-me-what-to-do Tue, 01 Dec 2020 19:00:26 +0000 How can I tell my boyfriend that he needs to be more romantic? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1339/how-can-i-tell-my-boyfriend-that-he-needs-to-be-more-romantic <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">romantic means I want him to show that he is still trying to keep me as he used to do.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">How can i tell him that without hurting his feelings?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1339/how-can-i-tell-my-boyfriend-that-he-needs-to-be-more-romantic Thu, 26 Nov 2020 18:58:08 +0000 Should I go for a weekend break with him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1227/should-i-go-for-a-weekend-break-with-him <p>For the first time I turned to internet for some advice. I am in such a complicated situation in my life today. Atleast that is what I feel.I will try to be short but need to share some background to understand my complexity.</p><p>I am married 10 years back and have&nbsp;2 lovely kids. Ours was early arranged&nbsp;marriage while I was in my graduation and did not have much of those newly married couple fun, I got pregnant in 3 months and the planned honeymoon trip also was cancelled. I feel slightly jealous when I see some young couples for this reason.&nbsp;<img alt="devil" title="devil" src="https://forum.womennow.in//qa-plugin/wysiwyg-editor/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/devil_smile.png">&nbsp;But after 5 years, my husband got an onshore opportunity from his company and we moved out of India with our 2 kids. I must say first year after moving was best time of my life as there were no family botherations like back in India, we had more freedom for us and we did manage some travelling despite my daughter being just 1 year old then.&nbsp;</p><p>I dont know how and when but slowly there were ruptures in my relation with my hubby. I refer him as J now. I adjusted with many things but at some point even I had to push back. I was encouraged or more really talking forced to work to meet additional income with growing kids. But I did not get enough support at household works. He was very strict with kids on studies and he was sitting&nbsp;until 10 in night with my son who was just 6 years old even when he wanted to sleep and force him to keep reading. When I objected he shouts on me and lectures about career. That is just an example on his behavior, many things added including some unacceptible for a woman&nbsp;and cooked for 2 years. But long story short, one night after our parent's visit and return to India we had a huge argument, he asked me to leave his home. I know he is not bad as a individual person. Many of our relatives dont believe at all if we say about him. But things between us were not working out and my self respect got badly hurt that night. I said to him I will be leaving home next morning as I cannot leave at 2AM and I will never talk to him in life. This happened one and half year ago and I never talked to him again though we meet every weekend for our kids. Our families do not know about this yet.&nbsp;</p><p>Next morning at 6 AM we had our family friend, I will call him R here, rang our doorbell. Itseems J, my hubby, called him and asked to help me to move out. At that second, my last little hope for my married relation was gone. I did not utter a word, asked R for one hour, packed all my things, took my kids and followed him.&nbsp;</p><p>About R, we got introduced as he was the manager of the client company where my husband worked. He is quite soft, gentleman and yet energetic. Our relation quickly grew due to his friendly attitude to my husband despite being client and he loved the spicy food we cook. He was asking himself and coming to our home for food. My husband was happy too, R actually saved his job in some tough situations, as client he had more power than J's managers too. R was divorced and has 2 kids that were living with his ex-wife. They used to visit him during holidays and sometimes they were spending day time at our home. My son was same age as his younger son. As they didnt have mother for that time, I was also taking care of some small things for them.They all went well and we as families got very close.</p><p>That morning R took me and my kids to his home. He was expecting this is a one or two day issue. But after a week, I requested him to find a flat for me to rent. He talked to my husband and though J did not talk to me, he sent the message with R that I should come home. I insisted on living separately and luckily we could find a flat in same complex where R lives. It was a lot of support for me in the unknown country.&nbsp;</p><p>During this one and half year, I am grateful to R for all the help he extended to me and my kids. I was financially independent but you know we need a support as a human being. That is what R gave without any politics or complications. Whenever I ask for a help, it is done without any questions or comments and he left. I know all of that is discussed between him and my husband. Even R said to me many times, this is what J is saying about this situation.&nbsp;But I dont care.&nbsp;</p><p>We were good friends before, but since start of this support we turned out to be best friends. He now knows all about my family back in India, he understands my every thought even before I say.&nbsp;He is not just an advisor but did things for me.&nbsp;&nbsp;I could talk to him recently even things I could talk only to my closest female friends. After few months, with the closeness, I didnt feel awkward when he said or laughed loud at some adult jokes. In the beginning he used to come every evening to our flat, used to have dinner with us as I cooked anyway. Later, we used to meet atleast once or twice in the evenings in weekdays.&nbsp;When his kids came, we all used to go to his home for dinner. Meanwhile we agreed that my husband comes and stays with us every saturday. After all, I do not want my kids to keep away from their father's support.&nbsp;When he wants to take them to his house, I do not go, just send kids. They come back on Sunday.&nbsp;</p><p>I recognised that some time, dont know when I grew some feelings for R. I convinced myself that am after all a human being. I was 28 when I left my husbands home, that is the age when some girls first fall in love. But I have my family, my kids to take care.&nbsp;I never expressed till today my feelings to him. But to be honest, I did not stop him sometimes what I could call as crossing boundary. We talk all things openly when kids are not there. Usually when he comes to us, after kids go to sleep, we watch a movie together or some tv show, have some chat and he leaves to his flat for sleep. Sometimes we both walked to the terrace of our flats, sat there for a couple of hours and chatted about&nbsp;all sorts of things around us.&nbsp;Some of those movies obviously have adult content, initially we were feeling discomfort but not anymore. I think about an year back, while he was talking about his ex-wife he was sharing some of his memories where on a holiday how stunning his wife was looking in a white dress they bought that day&nbsp;on a beach. A couple of months later he asked if I can wear that dress on the evening walk we went that day. I wore it without hesitation, at same time I did not miss the charm in his eyes he had that entire evening seeing me.&nbsp;</p><p>Later on, this continued with few more dresses, this time not his wife's but&nbsp;we used to shop when we go out for shopping. After few months some of those even turned out to be what we call "hot". May be common in movies or in western but for me those were absolutely the dresses we wear in the room in front of husband only. We were doing this now and then after kids get to sleep.&nbsp;I will admit, I felt shy but not discomfort with him. Rather I enjoyed a lot his blushing&nbsp;eyes and his reactions.</p><p>One evening we had a discussion on some adult relation while watching a movie and ended up kissing each other. I did not object and the liplock went on for about 5 minutes. Then I asked him it is better to leave and he left silently. Next week, one evening he came for dinner and asked if he can stay back for a movie. Once the kids slept, he said sorry and I said its ok, I too enjoyed it lets forget it. He asked if I dont mind if he kisses me today. I said to him I know you share many things here with my husband. Did you share the incident from last week. He said no, how can I. I said thank you and sat next to him as usual as before. That day we did not kiss but later a few times we did. One such evening, his hand went on to my chest and he tried to open the button. I stopped his hand and said lets stop here. I do not want to get married again in my life. He said, he too would never want to marry again. All he is looking is for romance and healthy relationship and I can stop wherever I want. He apologised that he was curious like a man to see a girl. That night on his promise that we wont have sex, I modelled topless in front of him. This happened 3 months back. Till now we did not kiss again, we however got more closer emotionally.&nbsp;</p><p>Last week, he came from work and said J will be taking our kids next weekend and he wont come here. I said fine. He then said why dont we go out for a weekend break. I said what. He started explaining me that I should go out for my good, away from this surroundings and stress and relax a bit. So he booked a hotel in a town 2 hours drive from here. I said no way, I cant do this. He asked what are my concerns. I said about kids, he said J will take them, I talked to him. I asked what? Did you say this to J? To my surprise, he said yes. J is aware that he is planning for a weekend trip for me. He doesnt have an issue. Next concern, staying alone away would end up at sex. He said if I want we will have it. If not, it will never happen, he assures it.&nbsp;</p><p>To be frank I like him very much, if I was not married or if not for my kids he is a perfect husband. But I do not want to marry again in my life. My heart strongly pulls to go out for the holiday break. Though it looks like a small 2 day holiday to next town, it will be a greaaaaaaaaaaaat relief for me from all the stress I had in past months. At the same time, he was also clear he do not want to marry again in his life. He does not have any small intention to marry me. In his words this week, he loves me a lot and strongly wants a relationship with me. I can decide to add sex to it if I want, or romance to it if I want or nothing if I dont want. He is fine with all.&nbsp;</p><p>I am in a conflict now, honestly I am not fully confident if I can behave like I want, if I am spending 2 private days and nights with a person I like so much and supporting me every second of my life. I am also a human being at all, with all natural desires. Last time I had sex with my husband was almost 20 months ago. I heard he is going out already since 3 months of our breakup. Irrespective of sex, I am not sure what will happen later in my relationship with R, if I go with him now. I cannot imagine if something goes beyond, what will my parents and families in India will see it.&nbsp;</p><p>I could not even talk to a cousin of mine, who knows all about me since childhood, as she is from our family and they dont know about our split here. I checked with one of my close friends from college. She took a day and came back with a suggestion that I should go with him, if I really get tempted I should take all precautions to avoid pregnancy and forget the story after we come back. But I am not convinced, I believe my situation is more complex than what she simply saw. So I thought of checking with you the experts here. Please suggest if I should go this weekend with him or not. Will be grateful to you</p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1227/should-i-go-for-a-weekend-break-with-him Tue, 15 Sep 2020 13:54:12 +0000 Pounding is the fastest way to get pregnant? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1179/pounding-is-the-fastest-way-to-get-pregnant I want to get pregnant.<br /> <br /> I have heard that non-stop pounding is the fastest way to get pregnant as maximum cum is released. Is this right? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1179/pounding-is-the-fastest-way-to-get-pregnant Sat, 15 Aug 2020 07:44:45 +0000 What should I do? I like this guy http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1154/what-should-i-do-i-like-this-guy He said he likes me, we went out we kissed. <br /> <br /> The next day he wants to have sex. What should I do? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1154/what-should-i-do-i-like-this-guy Sun, 17 May 2020 12:27:17 +0000 Is my friend in an (emotionally) abusive relationship or are they just co-dependent? Should I worry? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1152/friend-emotionally-abusive-relationship-dependent-should My friend (who lives abroad, this makes it a bit harder to judge, hence my question here) has been with a guy for 5 years now. The first two years they seemed ok, but since then she broke up with him (and got back together again) many times. According to her because “he just won’t let her go”. &nbsp;She would say repeatedly say that “for her it’s over, no matter how hard he tries”. That she calls him her ex, but he keeps calling her his girlfriend. Eventually they always slide back into the relationship, until the next ‘cycle’ or ‘episode’. She once even broke up and moved to a different city, alone, (after they had lived together for a while at her place in a smaller town). But even then they would still end up being together eventually, she saying he ‘convinced himself the city could be ok’ and stay with her a few days a week (his job is still in the smaller town).<br /> <br /> The keep going in the on/off cycle for another six months until at some point her complaints became a bit more worrying. She would say he doesn’t show her any physical affection anymore, despite saying that he still loves her. That this makes her feel insecure, unattractive and rejected. That she already has low self esteem and that this makes her even change the way she holds herself around other people. And that she feels she’s to blame for it. That they basically live like brother and sister and for her it’s over, but again “he won’t let her go”. She says it’s hard to rebuild anything new and it will take her some time to feel differently. She breaks up again and he ignores it and keeps acting as if they’re still together. And so they keep going.<br /> <br /> At some point she says she really broke up this time and actually started dating some other guys. I was happy for her that she finally managed to cut it off. But after a month she started talking about her ex again: that he still has the keys to her house and sometimes comes inside her house when she's at work to 'check if there's still pictures of them hanging on the wall’ and he would leave notes for her. That he brought her flowers and gave her a ride to the airport which was “actually handy”. That his mother is very ill and she feels obliged to ask him about it. Because she feels she can't be rude to him after “all he did for her”. That she feels afraid to slip back into the relationship again, because like always he just keeps acting like they are still together. That he asked her if he could stay at her place for one month because of a new job close to her house, and that she feels like she can't refuse it because he still pays part of her rent. She also sent me a picture showing a big cut in her nose. Saying it was an “accident at the gym”. (?)<br /> <br /> No surprise, a few weeks later she announces she’s back with him, saying she wants to give another chance to the person that has been there for her the past 5 years in all the good and bad times.<br /> <br /> My question: Is this just two people who just can’t be without each other and are addicted to breaking up and making up? Or is this a slowly developing (emotionally) abusive relationship? Doe she really love this guy and is she making up his “manipulation” as an excuse to go back to him? Or doesn’t she even realise his behaviour looks pretty toxic from outside?<br /> <br /> I know she has been in a physically abusive relationship before, has abandonment issues, low self esteem etc.<br /> <br /> Where do you start drawing the line between: “if she really wanted to break up she would have done so ling time ago” or “if she really wanted this guy out of her life she could change her locks and call the police” and “she’s being emotionally abused and I as a friend have to take some kind of action?” And if so, what could I do from a distance?<br /> <br /> What do you guys make of this? And what’s his and her role or motives and behaviours? Could they be abusing each other? Could she be abusing him? I find it so difficult to tell. Hope to find some answers from people who know about this stuff. Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1152/friend-emotionally-abusive-relationship-dependent-should Sun, 10 May 2020 22:04:55 +0000 How to know the right time to pull out before ejaculation? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1146/how-to-know-the-right-time-to-pull-out-before-ejaculation My Girlfriend and I want to have sex together. My Girlfriend wants me to use a condom, but I want to have sex without Condom so she doesnt get pregnant. But I dont want to use condom and want to show her that I can pull out before I ejaculate.<br /> <br /> I want to know how I will know during sex that i am about to ejaculate and will know to pull out? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1146/how-to-know-the-right-time-to-pull-out-before-ejaculation Sun, 19 Apr 2020 16:02:10 +0000 It's been a year and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1122/its-been-a-year-and-my-boyfriend-wants-to-have-sex-with-me Our relationship will be of one year soon and my boyfriend wants to have sex it's not like we didn't get physical ofcourse we have done everything but sex as i was not ready and now he was asking again about this but the problem is i am ready to have sex the only problem is it comes with a great price and that is being pregnant i have read so many stories about unwanted pregnancies and i dont want to go through it the only option is to visit to a together to get more information so this kind of problem doesn't arise but i am scared to tell him about this as once he told me that &quot;how can you get pregnant when i am gonna use a condom?&quot; I love him alot i dont want to loose him over this sex thing what should i do Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1122/its-been-a-year-and-my-boyfriend-wants-to-have-sex-with-me Sat, 11 Jan 2020 21:02:30 +0000 My boyfriend refuses to give me oral sex. what should I do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1110/my-boyfriend-refuses-to-give-me-oral-sex-what-should-i-do My boyfriend of 3 years was very sexually inexperienced before we started dating. He is very shy and vanilla in bed and is not willing to go outside of his comfort zone. I love him very much but I have not &nbsp;been sexually satisfied once in the entirety of our relationship. I've asked him hundreds of times to try giving me oral sex but he refuses to do so. I've explained to him that I'm unsatisfied with our sex life but now I think I've put to much pressure on him and he is scared by the entire act of sex. He doesn't want to disappoint me so he rarely ever has sex with me at all. &nbsp;(mind you I am 21 years old! too young to be settling in a sexless, passionless relationship.) He's a great partner outside of that, and I don't want to end things with him but I am so sexually frustrated and I really can't go on like this. Is this relationship salvageable?? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1110/my-boyfriend-refuses-to-give-me-oral-sex-what-should-i-do Mon, 14 Oct 2019 02:59:18 +0000 Leaking Cum and squirt instead of Peeing and pooing http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1107/leaking-cum-and-squirt-instead-of-peeing-and-pooing Whenever I go to the toliet in the last 2 months to pee or poo I am actually leaking white creamy cum and clear liquid squirt from my ass and vagina instead of pee and poo which causes me to have a tingly sensation in my vagina and ass followed by heavy orgasm.<br /> <br /> Also contact with water ie. Swimming pool, bath tub or shower makes me go to the toliet.<br /> <br /> does anyone know the cause of this and whether it is a problem and if i should be concerned? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1107/leaking-cum-and-squirt-instead-of-peeing-and-pooing Tue, 24 Sep 2019 07:50:27 +0000 Effective way for Male to Delay ejaculation http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1045/effective-way-for-male-to-delay-ejaculation Does anyone know any effective ways &nbsp;such as pills etc. which can allow me to delay ejaculation for 1hr+ when i am having sex? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1045/effective-way-for-male-to-delay-ejaculation Wed, 03 Jul 2019 02:51:17 +0000 My teen daughter and son still wants to breastfeed off me http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1028/my-teen-daughter-and-son-still-wants-to-breastfeed-off-me Hi, <br /> <br /> My daughter, 16 and my son, 11, still ask me to breastfeed them. <br /> <br /> They sometimes even ask me to put my breastmilk in their cereal at breakfast and even asked me to pour them a glass of my breastmilk when they want a cup of milk. <br /> <br /> Up until know I thought it was ok, but I don't know. Parenting http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1028/my-teen-daughter-and-son-still-wants-to-breastfeed-off-me Fri, 24 May 2019 04:34:23 +0000 Habits of Teen Girls and even Adult Women http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1024/habits-of-teen-girls-and-even-adult-women Why do teen girls and even adult women always want to shave their leg hair, &nbsp;vagina hair and armpit hair, put on makeup and wear revealing clothing with high heels? <br /> <br /> Is it because they want to look hot and attractive? <br /> <br /> Whenever they get ready for a party, &nbsp;going to school, university, college or a friends house they are always shaving and especially for parties or friend houses they are putting on makeup and revealing clothing with high heels. <br /> <br /> Mothers are always encouraging teen daughters to learn to do these things. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1024/habits-of-teen-girls-and-even-adult-women Mon, 20 May 2019 03:08:58 +0000 Should I continue breastfeeding my older brother-in-law? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1017/should-i-continue-breastfeeding-my-older-brother-in-law Brother-in-law is 45. unmarried. I am 32. My husband went abroad for a job. Now we are alone. I convinced my bro-in-law to feed from me. &nbsp;Now we both love it. We don't do sex. How many times a day is okay? Relationship with In laws http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1017/should-i-continue-breastfeeding-my-older-brother-in-law Fri, 10 May 2019 12:19:14 +0000 How would you responded to a potential romantic partner who reveals past abuse/molestation? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1010/responded-potential-romantic-partner-reveals-molestation Male here: I ask this question anonymously on this forum because I want unfettered feedback from Women.<br /> <br /> Background:<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The last sexual/romantic relationship I was in ended 11 years ago. &nbsp;It was emotionally, physically, sexually and financially abusive: multiple violations of restraining orders, an attempt on my life (woke up to being strangled) and in retrospect, rape (twice…. yes, it happens: a woman can rape a man).<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;After this relationship, any notion of Sex stopped and I ceased contact with any datable woman for 5 years- including friends. &nbsp;After 5 years, I picked up 1 or 2 female friends, but adamantly remained abstinent, avoiding dating until I could figure out what caused me to be in such a horrible relationship.<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A few year ago, I started Therapy, where I was able to realize, acknowledge and accept the abuse and physical/sexual assaults. &nbsp;<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Therapy allowed me to understand why I had entered into that relationship and stayed for so long: turn out I had been molested by girls when I was 3-4 years old, and my relationship followed that pattern of abuse.<br /> <br /> I am in the midsts of healing and realize that I want to be in a secure romantic relationship where I can express myself fully, including physically. &nbsp;Of course I’m working on myself. &nbsp;But my questions are:<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1). How do I reveal this information to a potential partner… Gradually? &nbsp;But how gradual can you be when drawing close emotionally makes physical contact more difficult and painful.<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2). What types of responses can I anticipate? &nbsp;How would you? &nbsp;What percentage of women have the patience to deal with such BS?<br /> <br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3) &nbsp;Of course I am concerned about how I am perceived by a potential partner: what are your thoughts on how you perceive a man with such baggage? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1010/responded-potential-romantic-partner-reveals-molestation Sun, 21 Apr 2019 21:10:00 +0000 What do my friends think if I date my ex's friend after my break up with him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1002/what-friends-think-date-exs-friend-after-my-break-up-with-him I recently broke up with my boyfriend and after few days his friend asked me out for a date, I said yes. <br /> <br /> Now I am feeling I shouldn't have said yes. What do you think? What will my friends think about me?? <br /> <br /> Should I say no to him?? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1002/what-friends-think-date-exs-friend-after-my-break-up-with-him Sun, 07 Apr 2019 13:15:44 +0000 Should I kiss her? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=992/should-i-kiss-her Hello there,<br /> <br /> I am now questioning my sexuality for a long time now. But lately I think that one of my friends is flirting with me. I really like her, but I have no idea if she likes me or if she is even not straight.<br /> <br /> Sometimes she gives me looks that let me think she wants more or when we do something in a group together it is Always her seeking me. Now I am in a dillema. Should I give her subtile hints, should I talk t her. I don't know what to do. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=992/should-i-kiss-her Mon, 18 Mar 2019 13:09:28 +0000 Why doesn't my boyfriend want sex anymore? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=984/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-sex-anymore So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years and for the first 18 months of our relationship we had a regular and open minded sex life (we tried a bit of everything and he was always enthusiastic) but since then it has been has been slowly declining to only once every few months and often when he is drunk. The decline of sex began around the time we finished university and began living together. In every other aspect our relationship is great; we make each other laugh everyday and although we bicker we very rarely have meaningful arguments. He seems to have lost almost all sexual desire: he rejects my advances and masturbates much less than he used (although he still masturbates more than having sex). I have tried speaking to him many times in many different ways, stating clearly that I wouldn't be upset if his lack of desire was in anyway due to me. All I've managed to get from him is that he simply is 'not bothered' by sex and that the initial decline was due to him gaining weight and since losing it all in the last year he has struggled to 'get back into the habit of doing it' which suggests to me he views sex as something he owes me rather than something he actually wants to do. The only period over the last 2 years where his sexual enthusiasm surged was when we were on summer holiday abroad. I would love to see a therapist about this but we struggling financially as I am currently unable to work due to serious medical issues (which obviously hasn't helped our sex life).<br /> <br /> I have concluded that his lack of sexual desire is due to at least one of these reasons:<br /> <br /> - He no longer finds me attractive/ doesn't enjoy our sex but doesn't have the heart to tell me<br /> <br /> - He is too worried about work and financial issues<br /> <br /> - He is asexual or has a medical issue that has reduced his testosterone<br /> <br /> I am very upset about his lack of sexual desire as it feeds into my own insecurities and makes me question the future of our relationship, at this point I am desperate. Any advice would be welcomed. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=984/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-sex-anymore Mon, 18 Feb 2019 11:49:28 +0000 why did he flirt with her and ignore me? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=974/why-did-he-flirt-with-her-and-ignore-me Why did my crush flirt with her? I was walking with him and the girlfriend of his best friend he started to flirt with her I said bye but he suggested walking more with me and the girl accepted he continued flirting with her then he told me that he wants to be in relation with a girl like her but doesn't have the means to attract such a girl I left them behind talking and whispering and when I was near my home I said goodbye he ignored me and only the girl replied Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=974/why-did-he-flirt-with-her-and-ignore-me Mon, 28 Jan 2019 11:52:55 +0000 difficulty with penetration and arousal http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=970/difficulty-with-penetration-and-arousal Hello,<br /> I am a girl in her late teens (19, specifically) with a boyfriend of the same age. I've been pretty sexually aware since I was quite young but to this day have yet to reach an orgasm (even through masturbation). I've been in multiple relationships before- both guys and girls. However, I've only ever reached complete sexual intimacy with my current boyfriend of three years. I absolutely adore him, love him and sometimes even obsess over him; but ironically I'm pretty chill of a person, as in I'm not overly protective, demanding or anything of the sort. Things are pretty open and easy going with us and we speak about everything- even this.<br /> The problem essentially is that I'm having difficulty in actually performing intercourse. I'm entirely enticed by the idea of sex and I know I want it too- I feel excited, my body reacts excitedly (that buzzing need down there) and I fantasize pretty much along the same amount a boy going through puberty would.<br /> But when it comes to penetration and prolonged sexual arousal (by prolonged I mean more than that instant where my body feels excited) I have difficulties. I dont really feel aroused by porn or admittedly physical engagement, though I fantasize about it with him all the time. Being with him physically does excite me a little but it dims down again as soon as we move to genital stimulation. Penetration of any kind can be painful for me, and it gets really painful at times because I just dont stretch out. Though I have had penetrated sex with him, and he's orgasmed, it is difficult for me to get accustomed to the lingering pain that prevents from experiencing complete pleasure. I do feel pleasured while we have sex, but the pain still exists. I was close one time to orgasming, I could feel a slow build up (it was a second time go) but most all the time there is no build up or maybe it just takes a lot for me to get aroused.<br /> Yes, Ive considered lube, but its too costly in my country. We dont use Vaseline or anything cause he fears the condom reacting badly with the chemicals.<br /> I have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression (I get panic attacks) but with him I am genuinely calm and consciously make the effort to relax my always tensed up body. Im really unsure about what's causing me to not enjoy this as much as I want to and know I can.<br /> Sorry this was such a long read,<br /> Ash. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=970/difficulty-with-penetration-and-arousal Fri, 04 Jan 2019 13:18:25 +0000 What does it mean when a woman that you've known for only a week. Acts like she's interesting in you (more inside) http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=967/woman-youve-known-only-week-acts-like-shes-interesting-inside What does it mean when a woman that you've known for only a week. Acts like she's interesting in you, but when i get close she pushes me away. then one day she's naked in my room, I walk in. She says &quot;F me&quot;, I walk over to her, she stands up and punches me as hard as she can in the eye. What signal is she trying to send to me?<br /> <br /> I really have no idea, an answer would be nice. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=967/woman-youve-known-only-week-acts-like-shes-interesting-inside Thu, 03 Jan 2019 18:54:11 +0000 Dating two men? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=951/dating-two-men <p><span style="font-family:.sfuidisplay; font-size:21pt">I&rsquo;m dating two guys at the same time but both are living in another city. I see Matt more often because we had a relationship before and it ended last year. He&rsquo;s a good friend , I like to hang out and spend time with him. Sex was great when we were first dating but now I don&rsquo;t feel the same kind of passion towards him anymore because someone else came into the picture this summer.&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-family:.sfuidisplay; font-size:21pt">His name is Henry.&nbsp; Eventhough we don&rsquo;t have so much in common and at times I don&rsquo;t understand him at all, we have a very strong magnetic attraction. I dream about sleeping with Henry when I&rsquo;m alone. But I also enjoy sleeping with Matt as well. Because he&rsquo;s familiar. Everybody knows about the situation except I didn&rsquo;t tell Henry that I&rsquo;m still sleeping with my exboyfriend Matt, he knows we still see each other occasionally and perhaps figures that we might be sleeping together as well. But he didn&rsquo;t say anything about it. Matt on the other hand knows that I slept with Henry all summer and he told me I&rsquo;ll get bored of Henry eventually.&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family:.sfuidisplay; font-size:21pt">I don&rsquo;t know. I try to convince myself that I&rsquo;m being honest but I&rsquo;m afraid to lose control of the situation that is in case if I have any...&nbsp;</span></p><p></p> http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=951/dating-two-men Tue, 04 Dec 2018 16:47:42 +0000 Pregnant soon after birth, How is this possible? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=918/pregnant-soon-after-birth-how-is-this-possible Hi,<br /> <br /> I just had delivery and gave birth 3 days ago. Yesterday night me and my husband had sex with each other as we felt like it.<br /> <br /> Today I had a headache and stomach pain, so I did a pregnancy test and found out I am pregnant again.<br /> <br /> How is this possible, so soon after giving birth? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=918/pregnant-soon-after-birth-how-is-this-possible Sat, 03 Nov 2018 07:45:20 +0000 I met a guy at an event. He was friendly to me and we talk a lot also we had many time walking together. But, http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=913/event-friendly-talk-lot-also-many-time-walking-together-but I ask for my friends (including him) &nbsp;to follow my instagram account, but he didn't do it. I stalked him, &nbsp;he made some video stories. I'm very curious, &nbsp;so I follow him first with my real account. I found that the video stories are not available. That means, &nbsp;he deleted them after I follow him. &nbsp;What do you think about this guy? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=913/event-friendly-talk-lot-also-many-time-walking-together-but Thu, 25 Oct 2018 16:33:32 +0000 Much younger guys http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=904/much-younger-guys Middle aged mother of late teens and I have had a crush on one of sons mates. &nbsp;We have kissed and more at parties. &nbsp;My son is aware and told me I am labelled a milf. &nbsp;I know it would be casual but do I go further. &nbsp;I find guys that age very sexy and virile. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=904/much-younger-guys Wed, 10 Oct 2018 13:31:18 +0000 My wife and I have stopped having sex. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=902/my-wife-and-i-have-stopped-having-sex I have been married going on 6 years now. My wife is from Germany and I married her after knowing her for a short time. Before we were married and while we lived in the USA we constantly had sex. But since we moved to germany it slowly stopped to the point where it's only once every 4 to 6 months. I give her massages, I send flirty text, not to mentioned I left my entire family in the US for her. I do small things like every weekend I make sure to bring her breakfast in bed and I always have a hot cappuccino made for her. I say yes to everything she asks but is doesn't seem to help. At this point I don't even get to touch her. If I put a hand on her waist or butt when we are in bed, she quickly tells me to get off of her. What am I doing wrong? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=902/my-wife-and-i-have-stopped-having-sex Sun, 30 Sep 2018 18:56:58 +0000 I stopped loving someone who doesn't care? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=874/i-stopped-loving-someone-who-doesnt-care <p><span style="background-color:transparent; color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family:arial; font-size:11pt">I had a long-time boyfriend. We were almost six years and was planning to get married. We already started building our house. But everything turned into ashes and I never regretted that it happened. I always dream to walk in the aisle while he is waiting for me at the altar. However, during our almost six years ride, I realized that it was only I who tried so hard to let our relationship work. I was the one who did efforts and sacrifices. I forgave him a thousand times for hanging out in nightclubs with different women from USA. I always caught him still exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend. He lies to me countless times. I had become so blinded by what I thought was love. The moment I woke up from that nightmare, I knew I have done enough and I should stop. I am so glad I did. I know I have done something great for myself and I am proud of myself. </span></p><p></p><p></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=874/i-stopped-loving-someone-who-doesnt-care Wed, 12 Sep 2018 08:32:51 +0000 Why do guys prefer good-looking girls over intelligent ones? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=852/why-do-guys-prefer-good-looking-girls-over-intelligent-ones Why? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=852/why-do-guys-prefer-good-looking-girls-over-intelligent-ones Mon, 27 Aug 2018 11:45:17 +0000 My boyfriend says he will dump me because I am not like other girls, who wear makeup and fashionable clothes. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=808/boyfriend-because-other-girls-makeup-fashionable-clothes What should I do? Please help! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=808/boyfriend-because-other-girls-makeup-fashionable-clothes Fri, 20 Jul 2018 11:46:15 +0000 Can I get a unwanted 72 tablet from store without prescription? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=800/can-get-unwanted-72-tablet-from-store-without-prescription Can I? Please answer. Pregnancy http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=800/can-get-unwanted-72-tablet-from-store-without-prescription Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:00:36 +0000 My boyfriend says that he is not sure about us. He is also not ready to let go of me now. What am I supposed to do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=780/boyfriend-says-that-sure-about-also-ready-let-what-supposed My boyfriend told me that he is scared that he might leave me in the future. He says that he s not ready for a relationship. Even after giving time he is in the same stand. So I decided to break up with him. But he is not ready to let me go. He wants to me wait without expecting him to change. He says that he will miss me and regret his actions badly. I can't let go of him too. But my gut intuitions tell me that staying with him is like allowing him to use me as long as he wants. I am confused. Wat am I supposed to do now?? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=780/boyfriend-says-that-sure-about-also-ready-let-what-supposed Wed, 04 Jul 2018 21:37:14 +0000 I don't feel my boyfriend is into me anymore. What should i do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=749/i-dont-feel-my-boyfriend-is-into-me-anymore-what-should-i-do We are together for almost 8-9 months now. We have never been physical yet. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=749/i-dont-feel-my-boyfriend-is-into-me-anymore-what-should-i-do Sun, 17 Jun 2018 04:14:26 +0000 Best anniversary gift for my husband? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=744/best-anniversary-gift-for-my-husband I'm thinking to give anniversary gift to my husband. I need some ideas! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=744/best-anniversary-gift-for-my-husband Thu, 14 Jun 2018 11:27:43 +0000 Should I continue a complicated relationship with my ex? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=717/should-i-continue-a-complicated-relationship-with-my-ex My ex and I broke up on terms that cannot exactly be described as good, but it wasn't a messy break-up either. After an or so, he is back and the two of us have confessed to still having feelings for one another. However, I don't trust him anymore. Not that he broke my trust ever in the past. Yet, I have second guesses about him. He doesn't want a relationship as he says there are other priorities, which is true for me too. But, I'm not exactly sure about continuing the current state of our relationship either. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=717/should-i-continue-a-complicated-relationship-with-my-ex Tue, 29 May 2018 17:13:52 +0000 Why did he ask me about my previous relationships in our first meeting? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=698/why-did-ask-about-previous-relationships-our-first-meeting <p><span style="font-family:lato,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size:16px">Should I marry the man who asked me about my previous relationshpis right in the first meeting?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=698/why-did-ask-about-previous-relationships-our-first-meeting Thu, 24 May 2018 06:53:46 +0000 What's the perfect gift for an anniversary? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=665/whats-the-perfect-gift-for-an-anniversary Our anniversary is coming up and I really want to give an awesome gift to my girlfriend. Met this lovely woman in a site for foreign women seeking men (yes, I’m into foreign ladies) and we hit it off pretty quick. She was so lovely to chat with. We met up a couple of times and we’ve been dating for almost a year now. I need ideas for the gift. I’m not really fond of giving out gifts to girls I date but since she’s much more special, I want to give her something that she will really appreciate. I know she’s into bags, shoes, and make-up but I have no idea about those stuff. I also kinda want something customized or made from the heart. Any ideas? Suggestions? Thanks ahead. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=665/whats-the-perfect-gift-for-an-anniversary Fri, 11 May 2018 01:46:34 +0000 I made a hole in my gf's favorite bag. HELP! http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=659/i-made-a-hole-in-my-gfs-favorite-bag-help I’m in huge trouble y’all. I made a hole in my gf’s favorite bag and I don’t know what to do! She loves that bag cause it was given to her by her late mother a few years back. She’s going to be so pissed and devastated if she finds that hole sooner or later. That’s the only bag she ever seems to use whenever and wherever she goes. She brought it on the first day we met in the social dating tour, the night we went camping and hiking, and even at the beach! I seriously am scared to bring this up to her. I just don’t want her to panic or cry. I feel so guilty. How do I fix this? As much as possible, without her knowing. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=659/i-made-a-hole-in-my-gfs-favorite-bag-help Thu, 10 May 2018 00:53:57 +0000 How do I tell her she needs to mature? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=646/how-do-i-tell-her-she-needs-to-mature I’ve been having constant arguments with my girlfriend recently. She keeps on ranting about her finances, her work, and her family but when I give her advice, she would always feel bad. She thinks I’m always rationalizing her situation but I think she’s just being immature about it. For her current situation, I would even say that she’s privileged enough. She works for herself. Her parents don’t ask money from her. In fact, they’re the ones giving her money. Her office is a bit stressful, I can say, but overall she’s pretty lucky than other Peru ladies. She really needs to stop her constant complaints for little things like not getting the latest shoes or her mom preparing fish instead of meat. How do I tell her that she needs to be mature without insulting her? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=646/how-do-i-tell-her-she-needs-to-mature Wed, 09 May 2018 00:42:17 +0000 Gf has toxic friends. Need advice. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=624/gf-has-toxic-friends-need-advice Me and my current gf have been dating for about some time now. Of the months we’ve been together, there’s just one thing that bothers the hell out of me and it’s her friends. Her group of “friends” are clearly toxic for her but she doesn’t seem to see it no matter how much I try to warn her. They manipulate her, use her for her material things and money, and they say demeaning insults to her when they there are problems within the circle. One insult that hurt me the most was what they said to me that I’m have malicious intentions with my gf just because we met through a foreign dating event. They seem to have this mentality that I’m after physical things and that she’s after material possessions and money. That’s just one of the many crazy ideas they have no trouble saying to our faces. I can clearly see how affected my gf is about all of this and I honestly don’t know how to make things better for her from here. Any advice? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=624/gf-has-toxic-friends-need-advice Fri, 04 May 2018 00:04:24 +0000 My family is upset about me and my gf http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=620/my-family-is-upset-about-me-and-my-gf After a year of being apart, my girlfriend and I decided to give it another try. We’re both very happy about it. I’m so thankful for my girlfriend for really loving me even though I have so many flaws as a boyfriend. Sadly, my family is not so happy about this. They think our relationship has become too toxic and us meeting in a marriage tour event makes it worse. My sisters and even my mother wish for us to separate for good but I’m not gonna let that happen. How can I make my family believe in my relationship? How can I convince them that my girlfriend and I are good for each other? Anybody in this type of situation? Thanks. Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=620/my-family-is-upset-about-me-and-my-gf Thu, 03 May 2018 02:18:03 +0000 How to tell him that I love him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=603/how-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him I am friends with this guy from my class. We are good friends but recently I came to know that without talking to him and spending time with him I feel lost. I think I am in love with him or is it just an infatuation. How can I express it to him? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=603/how-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him Thu, 22 Mar 2018 11:04:04 +0000 What to do if family has put me in house arrest http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=588/what-to-do-if-family-has-put-me-in-house-arrest My family has kept me in house arrest since past 2 months cause am in a relationship with a guy from a different religion and they know we will marry I have tried to convince my family from past 5 yrs and they are forcing me to quit my job an giving me emotional torture Parents & Siblings http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=588/what-to-do-if-family-has-put-me-in-house-arrest Fri, 16 Mar 2018 07:33:14 +0000 Can being pampered at home be a ground for disrespect among peers? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=584/can-being-pampered-home-be-ground-for-disrespect-among-peers I am a single child and quite pampered by my mother. I feel that my being pampered at home has not only lead me to expect the same kind of treatment from others outside home, especially my peers but it also diminishes my weightage among them. There are a few who will 'baby' me but the others don't show me enough respect as though I'm not important when it comes to making important decisions or when it comes to knowing about important things. Why is it so? Could being pampered be a reason/the only reason or is it something else? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=584/can-being-pampered-home-be-ground-for-disrespect-among-peers Wed, 14 Mar 2018 17:20:53 +0000 Is it important to have a room of one's own post a certain age? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=583/is-it-important-to-have-a-room-of-ones-own-post-a-certain-age Oftentimes I face trouble with expressing myself freely in all aspects when I have people around. Whether it be in studying, working or seeking any form of entertainment, I somehow fail to be my real self and the trouble is I don't even get the space or the scope to understand myself completely because I'm conscious of letting myself go.<br /> <br /> However I know of people my age who share their rooms with their parents but I don't know if they face similar kind of problems as I do.<br /> <br /> I feel that sharing your room with your parents can hinder the development of your personality. I would like some of your opinions on this. Please. Thanks. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=583/is-it-important-to-have-a-room-of-ones-own-post-a-certain-age Wed, 14 Mar 2018 17:08:48 +0000 Is it a good idea to play along with the attention one gets from a man who already is in a relationship? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=572/idea-play-along-with-attention-gets-from-already-relationship This man has his girlfriend's (of two years) name tattooed on his wrist and yet on a casual meet, he asked to hold my hand. He asked how I would respond to him if he said he liked me. I reminded him that he has a girlfriend and that she wouldn't like him holding my hand. He told me he didn't understand what to think and that he just felt like holding my hand. He told me he loves her but he is extremely sweet to me, not even in a sexual way. I don't know what to make of this. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=572/idea-play-along-with-attention-gets-from-already-relationship Mon, 12 Mar 2018 17:47:53 +0000 I'm unable to forget my ex and he don't love me http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=571/im-unable-to-forget-my-ex-and-he-dont-love-me I'm always rembered my past moments spent with him he didn't love me he was just like my body Idon't want to remember my past &nbsp;but unable to do ?? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=571/im-unable-to-forget-my-ex-and-he-dont-love-me Mon, 12 Mar 2018 11:33:48 +0000