WomenNow Forum - Recent questions tagged love http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=tag/love Powered by Question2Answer i found out that i am pregnat with my fwb and he wants nothing to do withme http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1372/found-out-that-pregnat-with-fwb-and-wants-nothing-to-do-withme I recently found out that i am pregnant with my ffriends with benefits. I told him, he says he wants nothing to do with me.<br /> <br /> what shuld i do? i am freaking out!! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1372/found-out-that-pregnat-with-fwb-and-wants-nothing-to-do-withme Sat, 06 Feb 2021 08:42:48 +0000 I m jealous when my bfs friend comes to visit http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1371/i-m-jealous-when-my-bfs-friend-comes-to-visit Hi, im 24f my bfs friends visit us frequently. i am jealous because how close is a lady friend to my bf <br /> <br /> what can i do? i thought i am over it but not Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1371/i-m-jealous-when-my-bfs-friend-comes-to-visit Sat, 06 Feb 2021 08:37:33 +0000 Met a guy on Instagram we like each other. I want to continue that relationship. but my friends http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1350/instagram-each-other-want-continue-that-relationship-friends My friends are saying that internet relationships do not long last. But I like him and there is a good connection between us.<br /> <br /> What to do? Your opinion helps :) Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1350/instagram-each-other-want-continue-that-relationship-friends Wed, 13 Jan 2021 19:30:41 +0000 I feel like forced when kissing my boyfriend http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1344/i-feel-like-forced-when-kissing-my-boyfriend <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">I want to kiss him, but when kissing him I feel like I am forced into doing it.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">Why is it happening to me? I like him and love him too.</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1344/i-feel-like-forced-when-kissing-my-boyfriend Sat, 19 Dec 2020 19:06:16 +0000 I like this guy but he is not showing interest in me. Any solution? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1341/like-this-guy-but-he-is-not-showing-interest-in-me-any-solution <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">I like this guy and i said to him for couple of weeks before but he did not respond and I don't know what to do.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">Should I tel him again or should I talk to him.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">What should I do?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1341/like-this-guy-but-he-is-not-showing-interest-in-me-any-solution Fri, 04 Dec 2020 19:01:20 +0000 How can I tell my boyfriend that he needs to be more romantic? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1339/how-can-i-tell-my-boyfriend-that-he-needs-to-be-more-romantic <p><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">romantic means I want him to show that he is still trying to keep me as he used to do.</span><br><br><span style="font-family:open sans,sans-serif; font-size:14px">How can i tell him that without hurting his feelings?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1339/how-can-i-tell-my-boyfriend-that-he-needs-to-be-more-romantic Thu, 26 Nov 2020 18:58:08 +0000 Should I go for a weekend break with him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1227/should-i-go-for-a-weekend-break-with-him <p>For the first time I turned to internet for some advice. I am in such a complicated situation in my life today. Atleast that is what I feel.I will try to be short but need to share some background to understand my complexity.</p><p>I am married 10 years back and have&nbsp;2 lovely kids. Ours was early arranged&nbsp;marriage while I was in my graduation and did not have much of those newly married couple fun, I got pregnant in 3 months and the planned honeymoon trip also was cancelled. I feel slightly jealous when I see some young couples for this reason.&nbsp;<img alt="devil" title="devil" src="https://forum.womennow.in//qa-plugin/wysiwyg-editor/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/devil_smile.png">&nbsp;But after 5 years, my husband got an onshore opportunity from his company and we moved out of India with our 2 kids. I must say first year after moving was best time of my life as there were no family botherations like back in India, we had more freedom for us and we did manage some travelling despite my daughter being just 1 year old then.&nbsp;</p><p>I dont know how and when but slowly there were ruptures in my relation with my hubby. I refer him as J now. I adjusted with many things but at some point even I had to push back. I was encouraged or more really talking forced to work to meet additional income with growing kids. But I did not get enough support at household works. He was very strict with kids on studies and he was sitting&nbsp;until 10 in night with my son who was just 6 years old even when he wanted to sleep and force him to keep reading. When I objected he shouts on me and lectures about career. That is just an example on his behavior, many things added including some unacceptible for a woman&nbsp;and cooked for 2 years. But long story short, one night after our parent's visit and return to India we had a huge argument, he asked me to leave his home. I know he is not bad as a individual person. Many of our relatives dont believe at all if we say about him. But things between us were not working out and my self respect got badly hurt that night. I said to him I will be leaving home next morning as I cannot leave at 2AM and I will never talk to him in life. This happened one and half year ago and I never talked to him again though we meet every weekend for our kids. Our families do not know about this yet.&nbsp;</p><p>Next morning at 6 AM we had our family friend, I will call him R here, rang our doorbell. Itseems J, my hubby, called him and asked to help me to move out. At that second, my last little hope for my married relation was gone. I did not utter a word, asked R for one hour, packed all my things, took my kids and followed him.&nbsp;</p><p>About R, we got introduced as he was the manager of the client company where my husband worked. He is quite soft, gentleman and yet energetic. Our relation quickly grew due to his friendly attitude to my husband despite being client and he loved the spicy food we cook. He was asking himself and coming to our home for food. My husband was happy too, R actually saved his job in some tough situations, as client he had more power than J's managers too. R was divorced and has 2 kids that were living with his ex-wife. They used to visit him during holidays and sometimes they were spending day time at our home. My son was same age as his younger son. As they didnt have mother for that time, I was also taking care of some small things for them.They all went well and we as families got very close.</p><p>That morning R took me and my kids to his home. He was expecting this is a one or two day issue. But after a week, I requested him to find a flat for me to rent. He talked to my husband and though J did not talk to me, he sent the message with R that I should come home. I insisted on living separately and luckily we could find a flat in same complex where R lives. It was a lot of support for me in the unknown country.&nbsp;</p><p>During this one and half year, I am grateful to R for all the help he extended to me and my kids. I was financially independent but you know we need a support as a human being. That is what R gave without any politics or complications. Whenever I ask for a help, it is done without any questions or comments and he left. I know all of that is discussed between him and my husband. Even R said to me many times, this is what J is saying about this situation.&nbsp;But I dont care.&nbsp;</p><p>We were good friends before, but since start of this support we turned out to be best friends. He now knows all about my family back in India, he understands my every thought even before I say.&nbsp;He is not just an advisor but did things for me.&nbsp;&nbsp;I could talk to him recently even things I could talk only to my closest female friends. After few months, with the closeness, I didnt feel awkward when he said or laughed loud at some adult jokes. In the beginning he used to come every evening to our flat, used to have dinner with us as I cooked anyway. Later, we used to meet atleast once or twice in the evenings in weekdays.&nbsp;When his kids came, we all used to go to his home for dinner. Meanwhile we agreed that my husband comes and stays with us every saturday. After all, I do not want my kids to keep away from their father's support.&nbsp;When he wants to take them to his house, I do not go, just send kids. They come back on Sunday.&nbsp;</p><p>I recognised that some time, dont know when I grew some feelings for R. I convinced myself that am after all a human being. I was 28 when I left my husbands home, that is the age when some girls first fall in love. But I have my family, my kids to take care.&nbsp;I never expressed till today my feelings to him. But to be honest, I did not stop him sometimes what I could call as crossing boundary. We talk all things openly when kids are not there. Usually when he comes to us, after kids go to sleep, we watch a movie together or some tv show, have some chat and he leaves to his flat for sleep. Sometimes we both walked to the terrace of our flats, sat there for a couple of hours and chatted about&nbsp;all sorts of things around us.&nbsp;Some of those movies obviously have adult content, initially we were feeling discomfort but not anymore. I think about an year back, while he was talking about his ex-wife he was sharing some of his memories where on a holiday how stunning his wife was looking in a white dress they bought that day&nbsp;on a beach. A couple of months later he asked if I can wear that dress on the evening walk we went that day. I wore it without hesitation, at same time I did not miss the charm in his eyes he had that entire evening seeing me.&nbsp;</p><p>Later on, this continued with few more dresses, this time not his wife's but&nbsp;we used to shop when we go out for shopping. After few months some of those even turned out to be what we call "hot". May be common in movies or in western but for me those were absolutely the dresses we wear in the room in front of husband only. We were doing this now and then after kids get to sleep.&nbsp;I will admit, I felt shy but not discomfort with him. Rather I enjoyed a lot his blushing&nbsp;eyes and his reactions.</p><p>One evening we had a discussion on some adult relation while watching a movie and ended up kissing each other. I did not object and the liplock went on for about 5 minutes. Then I asked him it is better to leave and he left silently. Next week, one evening he came for dinner and asked if he can stay back for a movie. Once the kids slept, he said sorry and I said its ok, I too enjoyed it lets forget it. He asked if I dont mind if he kisses me today. I said to him I know you share many things here with my husband. Did you share the incident from last week. He said no, how can I. I said thank you and sat next to him as usual as before. That day we did not kiss but later a few times we did. One such evening, his hand went on to my chest and he tried to open the button. I stopped his hand and said lets stop here. I do not want to get married again in my life. He said, he too would never want to marry again. All he is looking is for romance and healthy relationship and I can stop wherever I want. He apologised that he was curious like a man to see a girl. That night on his promise that we wont have sex, I modelled topless in front of him. This happened 3 months back. Till now we did not kiss again, we however got more closer emotionally.&nbsp;</p><p>Last week, he came from work and said J will be taking our kids next weekend and he wont come here. I said fine. He then said why dont we go out for a weekend break. I said what. He started explaining me that I should go out for my good, away from this surroundings and stress and relax a bit. So he booked a hotel in a town 2 hours drive from here. I said no way, I cant do this. He asked what are my concerns. I said about kids, he said J will take them, I talked to him. I asked what? Did you say this to J? To my surprise, he said yes. J is aware that he is planning for a weekend trip for me. He doesnt have an issue. Next concern, staying alone away would end up at sex. He said if I want we will have it. If not, it will never happen, he assures it.&nbsp;</p><p>To be frank I like him very much, if I was not married or if not for my kids he is a perfect husband. But I do not want to marry again in my life. My heart strongly pulls to go out for the holiday break. Though it looks like a small 2 day holiday to next town, it will be a greaaaaaaaaaaaat relief for me from all the stress I had in past months. At the same time, he was also clear he do not want to marry again in his life. He does not have any small intention to marry me. In his words this week, he loves me a lot and strongly wants a relationship with me. I can decide to add sex to it if I want, or romance to it if I want or nothing if I dont want. He is fine with all.&nbsp;</p><p>I am in a conflict now, honestly I am not fully confident if I can behave like I want, if I am spending 2 private days and nights with a person I like so much and supporting me every second of my life. I am also a human being at all, with all natural desires. Last time I had sex with my husband was almost 20 months ago. I heard he is going out already since 3 months of our breakup. Irrespective of sex, I am not sure what will happen later in my relationship with R, if I go with him now. I cannot imagine if something goes beyond, what will my parents and families in India will see it.&nbsp;</p><p>I could not even talk to a cousin of mine, who knows all about me since childhood, as she is from our family and they dont know about our split here. I checked with one of my close friends from college. She took a day and came back with a suggestion that I should go with him, if I really get tempted I should take all precautions to avoid pregnancy and forget the story after we come back. But I am not convinced, I believe my situation is more complex than what she simply saw. So I thought of checking with you the experts here. Please suggest if I should go this weekend with him or not. Will be grateful to you</p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1227/should-i-go-for-a-weekend-break-with-him Tue, 15 Sep 2020 13:54:12 +0000 What should I do? I like this guy http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1154/what-should-i-do-i-like-this-guy He said he likes me, we went out we kissed. <br /> <br /> The next day he wants to have sex. What should I do? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1154/what-should-i-do-i-like-this-guy Sun, 17 May 2020 12:27:17 +0000 Is my friend in an (emotionally) abusive relationship or are they just co-dependent? Should I worry? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1152/friend-emotionally-abusive-relationship-dependent-should My friend (who lives abroad, this makes it a bit harder to judge, hence my question here) has been with a guy for 5 years now. The first two years they seemed ok, but since then she broke up with him (and got back together again) many times. According to her because “he just won’t let her go”. &nbsp;She would say repeatedly say that “for her it’s over, no matter how hard he tries”. That she calls him her ex, but he keeps calling her his girlfriend. Eventually they always slide back into the relationship, until the next ‘cycle’ or ‘episode’. She once even broke up and moved to a different city, alone, (after they had lived together for a while at her place in a smaller town). But even then they would still end up being together eventually, she saying he ‘convinced himself the city could be ok’ and stay with her a few days a week (his job is still in the smaller town).<br /> <br /> The keep going in the on/off cycle for another six months until at some point her complaints became a bit more worrying. She would say he doesn’t show her any physical affection anymore, despite saying that he still loves her. That this makes her feel insecure, unattractive and rejected. That she already has low self esteem and that this makes her even change the way she holds herself around other people. And that she feels she’s to blame for it. That they basically live like brother and sister and for her it’s over, but again “he won’t let her go”. She says it’s hard to rebuild anything new and it will take her some time to feel differently. She breaks up again and he ignores it and keeps acting as if they’re still together. And so they keep going.<br /> <br /> At some point she says she really broke up this time and actually started dating some other guys. I was happy for her that she finally managed to cut it off. But after a month she started talking about her ex again: that he still has the keys to her house and sometimes comes inside her house when she's at work to 'check if there's still pictures of them hanging on the wall’ and he would leave notes for her. That he brought her flowers and gave her a ride to the airport which was “actually handy”. That his mother is very ill and she feels obliged to ask him about it. Because she feels she can't be rude to him after “all he did for her”. That she feels afraid to slip back into the relationship again, because like always he just keeps acting like they are still together. That he asked her if he could stay at her place for one month because of a new job close to her house, and that she feels like she can't refuse it because he still pays part of her rent. She also sent me a picture showing a big cut in her nose. Saying it was an “accident at the gym”. (?)<br /> <br /> No surprise, a few weeks later she announces she’s back with him, saying she wants to give another chance to the person that has been there for her the past 5 years in all the good and bad times.<br /> <br /> My question: Is this just two people who just can’t be without each other and are addicted to breaking up and making up? Or is this a slowly developing (emotionally) abusive relationship? Doe she really love this guy and is she making up his “manipulation” as an excuse to go back to him? Or doesn’t she even realise his behaviour looks pretty toxic from outside?<br /> <br /> I know she has been in a physically abusive relationship before, has abandonment issues, low self esteem etc.<br /> <br /> Where do you start drawing the line between: “if she really wanted to break up she would have done so ling time ago” or “if she really wanted this guy out of her life she could change her locks and call the police” and “she’s being emotionally abused and I as a friend have to take some kind of action?” And if so, what could I do from a distance?<br /> <br /> What do you guys make of this? And what’s his and her role or motives and behaviours? Could they be abusing each other? Could she be abusing him? I find it so difficult to tell. Hope to find some answers from people who know about this stuff. Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1152/friend-emotionally-abusive-relationship-dependent-should Sun, 10 May 2020 22:04:55 +0000 How to know the right time to pull out before ejaculation? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1146/how-to-know-the-right-time-to-pull-out-before-ejaculation My Girlfriend and I want to have sex together. My Girlfriend wants me to use a condom, but I want to have sex without Condom so she doesnt get pregnant. But I dont want to use condom and want to show her that I can pull out before I ejaculate.<br /> <br /> I want to know how I will know during sex that i am about to ejaculate and will know to pull out? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1146/how-to-know-the-right-time-to-pull-out-before-ejaculation Sun, 19 Apr 2020 16:02:10 +0000 Will I get married with my loved one as my parents are very strict they cannot accept my love http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1102/will-married-with-loved-parents-very-strict-cannot-accept-love Will I get married with my loved one as my parents are strict to accept my love Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1102/will-married-with-loved-parents-very-strict-cannot-accept-love Mon, 09 Sep 2019 07:54:09 +0000 Any good Yoga Sex Positions http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1101/any-good-yoga-sex-positions Any good Yoga or gymnastics Sex Positions that garuntee pregnancy? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1101/any-good-yoga-sex-positions Sun, 08 Sep 2019 01:03:45 +0000 My partner doesn't want to have sex anymore, but I am not asexual, but I love him.... help !!! http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1053/partner-doesnt-want-have-anymore-not-asexual-but-love-him-help My partner and I have been together almost 3 years, our sex life was never very frequent, but lately it's become so rare, we are talking once every two months for less than 5 minutes... I am getting very frustrated and desperate because at this point i am not sure whether he loves me or just stays with me for my money, because i make quite a bit more than him. Could he be feeling emasculated because I could function perfectly on my own, but he would struggle financially without me? I have tried talking to him numerous times, but he just says he's &quot;not like that&quot; or he's too tired or his head hurts. I don't think he is asexual, as he's had women before, I don't know if I am the problem, I try to look after myself and still look alright for my age (31), people always say i look like still in the early twenties but recently i put on a bit of weight because of the abstinence and the depression is getting worse day by day... please help, any advice welcome. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1053/partner-doesnt-want-have-anymore-not-asexual-but-love-him-help Wed, 14 Aug 2019 10:13:21 +0000 Anal sex made me pregnant, How? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1027/anal-sex-made-me-pregnant-how Hi, <br /> <br /> I am a girl and I had anal sex. &nbsp;<br /> <br /> I did a pregnancy test found out I am pregnant. I confirmed with doctor and I am pregnant. How? <br /> <br /> During Anal sex no cum dripped to my vagina, &nbsp;which I know is the only way to get pregnant from anal sex. <br /> <br /> But the doctor said that if you have anal sex for a long period of time in the same day, a lot of cum builds up in the anal and it can travel from the anal to the womb. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1027/anal-sex-made-me-pregnant-how Fri, 24 May 2019 04:26:15 +0000 Habits of Teen Girls and even Adult Women http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1024/habits-of-teen-girls-and-even-adult-women Why do teen girls and even adult women always want to shave their leg hair, &nbsp;vagina hair and armpit hair, put on makeup and wear revealing clothing with high heels? <br /> <br /> Is it because they want to look hot and attractive? <br /> <br /> Whenever they get ready for a party, &nbsp;going to school, university, college or a friends house they are always shaving and especially for parties or friend houses they are putting on makeup and revealing clothing with high heels. <br /> <br /> Mothers are always encouraging teen daughters to learn to do these things. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1024/habits-of-teen-girls-and-even-adult-women Mon, 20 May 2019 03:08:58 +0000 What do my friends think if I date my ex's friend after my break up with him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1002/what-friends-think-date-exs-friend-after-my-break-up-with-him I recently broke up with my boyfriend and after few days his friend asked me out for a date, I said yes. <br /> <br /> Now I am feeling I shouldn't have said yes. What do you think? What will my friends think about me?? <br /> <br /> Should I say no to him?? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=1002/what-friends-think-date-exs-friend-after-my-break-up-with-him Sun, 07 Apr 2019 13:15:44 +0000 Why doesn't my boyfriend want sex anymore? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=984/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-sex-anymore So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years and for the first 18 months of our relationship we had a regular and open minded sex life (we tried a bit of everything and he was always enthusiastic) but since then it has been has been slowly declining to only once every few months and often when he is drunk. The decline of sex began around the time we finished university and began living together. In every other aspect our relationship is great; we make each other laugh everyday and although we bicker we very rarely have meaningful arguments. He seems to have lost almost all sexual desire: he rejects my advances and masturbates much less than he used (although he still masturbates more than having sex). I have tried speaking to him many times in many different ways, stating clearly that I wouldn't be upset if his lack of desire was in anyway due to me. All I've managed to get from him is that he simply is 'not bothered' by sex and that the initial decline was due to him gaining weight and since losing it all in the last year he has struggled to 'get back into the habit of doing it' which suggests to me he views sex as something he owes me rather than something he actually wants to do. The only period over the last 2 years where his sexual enthusiasm surged was when we were on summer holiday abroad. I would love to see a therapist about this but we struggling financially as I am currently unable to work due to serious medical issues (which obviously hasn't helped our sex life).<br /> <br /> I have concluded that his lack of sexual desire is due to at least one of these reasons:<br /> <br /> - He no longer finds me attractive/ doesn't enjoy our sex but doesn't have the heart to tell me<br /> <br /> - He is too worried about work and financial issues<br /> <br /> - He is asexual or has a medical issue that has reduced his testosterone<br /> <br /> I am very upset about his lack of sexual desire as it feeds into my own insecurities and makes me question the future of our relationship, at this point I am desperate. Any advice would be welcomed. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=984/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-sex-anymore Mon, 18 Feb 2019 11:49:28 +0000 Condom Broke / Didnt ejaculate / Precum / What are the chances of unwanted pregnancy and should we take Plan B? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=976/condom-ejaculate-precum-chances-unwanted-pregnancy-should Hello! Im really worried because my girfriend and I had sex 50 hours ago and the condom I used broke inside her.I immediately stopped the intercourse and put on other condom. The thing which worries me the most is I usually have precum during foreplay and maybe sex, I went to the toilet to clean myself before the actual intercourse and to pee also. I didnt cum inside her, and I wasnt close to. It was 5 min since we started the act. My girlfriend usually has 28-30 days menstrual cycle but her latest was around 35 days for some reason. We had sex 2 days after her period ended (5 days period) so that means it was on the 7th or 8th day on her cycle. What are the chances of her getting pregnant and would you advice us to take Plan B for a thing like this because we are running out of time, and I dont know if it wont be for nothing Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=976/condom-ejaculate-precum-chances-unwanted-pregnancy-should Sun, 03 Feb 2019 05:04:44 +0000 why did he flirt with her and ignore me? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=974/why-did-he-flirt-with-her-and-ignore-me Why did my crush flirt with her? I was walking with him and the girlfriend of his best friend he started to flirt with her I said bye but he suggested walking more with me and the girl accepted he continued flirting with her then he told me that he wants to be in relation with a girl like her but doesn't have the means to attract such a girl I left them behind talking and whispering and when I was near my home I said goodbye he ignored me and only the girl replied Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=974/why-did-he-flirt-with-her-and-ignore-me Mon, 28 Jan 2019 11:52:55 +0000 difficulty with penetration and arousal http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=970/difficulty-with-penetration-and-arousal Hello,<br /> I am a girl in her late teens (19, specifically) with a boyfriend of the same age. I've been pretty sexually aware since I was quite young but to this day have yet to reach an orgasm (even through masturbation). I've been in multiple relationships before- both guys and girls. However, I've only ever reached complete sexual intimacy with my current boyfriend of three years. I absolutely adore him, love him and sometimes even obsess over him; but ironically I'm pretty chill of a person, as in I'm not overly protective, demanding or anything of the sort. Things are pretty open and easy going with us and we speak about everything- even this.<br /> The problem essentially is that I'm having difficulty in actually performing intercourse. I'm entirely enticed by the idea of sex and I know I want it too- I feel excited, my body reacts excitedly (that buzzing need down there) and I fantasize pretty much along the same amount a boy going through puberty would.<br /> But when it comes to penetration and prolonged sexual arousal (by prolonged I mean more than that instant where my body feels excited) I have difficulties. I dont really feel aroused by porn or admittedly physical engagement, though I fantasize about it with him all the time. Being with him physically does excite me a little but it dims down again as soon as we move to genital stimulation. Penetration of any kind can be painful for me, and it gets really painful at times because I just dont stretch out. Though I have had penetrated sex with him, and he's orgasmed, it is difficult for me to get accustomed to the lingering pain that prevents from experiencing complete pleasure. I do feel pleasured while we have sex, but the pain still exists. I was close one time to orgasming, I could feel a slow build up (it was a second time go) but most all the time there is no build up or maybe it just takes a lot for me to get aroused.<br /> Yes, Ive considered lube, but its too costly in my country. We dont use Vaseline or anything cause he fears the condom reacting badly with the chemicals.<br /> I have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression (I get panic attacks) but with him I am genuinely calm and consciously make the effort to relax my always tensed up body. Im really unsure about what's causing me to not enjoy this as much as I want to and know I can.<br /> Sorry this was such a long read,<br /> Ash. Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=970/difficulty-with-penetration-and-arousal Fri, 04 Jan 2019 13:18:25 +0000 How to Sacrifice period? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=968/how-to-sacrifice-period Does anyone know how pornstars and prostitutes sacrifice their period?<br /> <br /> Also how do they stop themselves from getting pregnant while filming? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=968/how-to-sacrifice-period Fri, 04 Jan 2019 12:28:41 +0000 Pregnant soon after birth, How is this possible? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=918/pregnant-soon-after-birth-how-is-this-possible Hi,<br /> <br /> I just had delivery and gave birth 3 days ago. Yesterday night me and my husband had sex with each other as we felt like it.<br /> <br /> Today I had a headache and stomach pain, so I did a pregnancy test and found out I am pregnant again.<br /> <br /> How is this possible, so soon after giving birth? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=918/pregnant-soon-after-birth-how-is-this-possible Sat, 03 Nov 2018 07:45:20 +0000 I met a guy at an event. He was friendly to me and we talk a lot also we had many time walking together. But, http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=913/event-friendly-talk-lot-also-many-time-walking-together-but I ask for my friends (including him) &nbsp;to follow my instagram account, but he didn't do it. I stalked him, &nbsp;he made some video stories. I'm very curious, &nbsp;so I follow him first with my real account. I found that the video stories are not available. That means, &nbsp;he deleted them after I follow him. &nbsp;What do you think about this guy? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=913/event-friendly-talk-lot-also-many-time-walking-together-but Thu, 25 Oct 2018 16:33:32 +0000 Why do guys prefer good-looking girls over intelligent ones? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=852/why-do-guys-prefer-good-looking-girls-over-intelligent-ones Why? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=852/why-do-guys-prefer-good-looking-girls-over-intelligent-ones Mon, 27 Aug 2018 11:45:17 +0000 Need suggestions/advices for my aimless love direction http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=817/need-suggestions-advices-for-my-aimless-love-direction <p><span style="font-family:.sfuitext; font-size:17pt">So, I&rsquo;m a 22 YO asian female who lives with a 50 YO male due to a unique circumstance. Initially, he tried to make a move on me after a few months living together, but I just ignored it. He did kind of groped and kissed me several times when I was sleeping (I know it sounds creepy and shit), and I almost gonna snap back at him. Long story short, aside from the &ldquo;accidents&rdquo;, I ended up falling for him after he helped me getting through my depression and other personal issues. Then, when I turned 20 (at the time), he took my virginity and we started having sex frequently ever since. The thing is, I don&rsquo;t really want a relationship whatsoever, but I don&rsquo;t know where we are heading to. I know he does have feelings for me as well, but he doesn&rsquo;t seem troubled about the aimless situation we both are in. What are your thoughts about this? Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated. Thankyou&nbsp;</span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family:.sfuitext; font-size:17pt">D.Y</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=817/need-suggestions-advices-for-my-aimless-love-direction Tue, 24 Jul 2018 08:03:01 +0000 My boyfriend says he will dump me because I am not like other girls, who wear makeup and fashionable clothes. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=808/boyfriend-because-other-girls-makeup-fashionable-clothes What should I do? Please help! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=808/boyfriend-because-other-girls-makeup-fashionable-clothes Fri, 20 Jul 2018 11:46:15 +0000 what to do when two guys love you at the same time? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=788/what-to-do-when-two-guys-love-you-at-the-same-time I came to know recently that two of my best friends love me. And I don't have any feeling for them.<br /> <br /> How can I let them easy on this news and not hurt them?<br /> <br /> Please help! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=788/what-to-do-when-two-guys-love-you-at-the-same-time Fri, 06 Jul 2018 13:18:25 +0000 My boyfriend says that he is not sure about us. He is also not ready to let go of me now. What am I supposed to do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=780/boyfriend-says-that-sure-about-also-ready-let-what-supposed My boyfriend told me that he is scared that he might leave me in the future. He says that he s not ready for a relationship. Even after giving time he is in the same stand. So I decided to break up with him. But he is not ready to let me go. He wants to me wait without expecting him to change. He says that he will miss me and regret his actions badly. I can't let go of him too. But my gut intuitions tell me that staying with him is like allowing him to use me as long as he wants. I am confused. Wat am I supposed to do now?? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=780/boyfriend-says-that-sure-about-also-ready-let-what-supposed Wed, 04 Jul 2018 21:37:14 +0000 I don't feel my boyfriend is into me anymore. What should i do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=749/i-dont-feel-my-boyfriend-is-into-me-anymore-what-should-i-do We are together for almost 8-9 months now. We have never been physical yet. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=749/i-dont-feel-my-boyfriend-is-into-me-anymore-what-should-i-do Sun, 17 Jun 2018 04:14:26 +0000 love a guy met online staying in different state http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=735/love-a-guy-met-online-staying-in-different-state It has been 12 months running that I talk to a guy whom I met on a online chatting app.He stays in a different state nad we cannot meet,we talk on whatsapp regularly and he calls me we even talked on video calls for many months,he is an awesome guy and a very good person but somewhere the problem starts when I started feeling for him.When I confessed to him about the feelings he told me not to be serious now as he cannot be serious so early.We never met and nver have spend any time together.He says he wants that meeting that time spending to know about me more and wants me to know about him more as he says by nowadays relationships are valueless ppl commit after 2 months of talking an after some months they breakup. He doesnt want that to happen,He is scared may be.On one hand I am becoming fustrated of not getting acceptance on other hand he doesnt want to part away niether I. What to do? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=735/love-a-guy-met-online-staying-in-different-state Wed, 06 Jun 2018 18:47:08 +0000 Should I continue a complicated relationship with my ex? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=717/should-i-continue-a-complicated-relationship-with-my-ex My ex and I broke up on terms that cannot exactly be described as good, but it wasn't a messy break-up either. After an or so, he is back and the two of us have confessed to still having feelings for one another. However, I don't trust him anymore. Not that he broke my trust ever in the past. Yet, I have second guesses about him. He doesn't want a relationship as he says there are other priorities, which is true for me too. But, I'm not exactly sure about continuing the current state of our relationship either. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=717/should-i-continue-a-complicated-relationship-with-my-ex Tue, 29 May 2018 17:13:52 +0000 Why did he ask me about my previous relationships in our first meeting? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=698/why-did-ask-about-previous-relationships-our-first-meeting <p><span style="font-family:lato,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size:16px">Should I marry the man who asked me about my previous relationshpis right in the first meeting?</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=698/why-did-ask-about-previous-relationships-our-first-meeting Thu, 24 May 2018 06:53:46 +0000 I feel used and ashamed of myself http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=614/i-feel-used-and-ashamed-of-myself I have been through 2 failed relationships...I had physical relationship with both of my partners ... N then they left me. I feel used n ashamed of myself Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=614/i-feel-used-and-ashamed-of-myself Fri, 27 Apr 2018 20:22:13 +0000 How to tell him that I love him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=603/how-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him I am friends with this guy from my class. We are good friends but recently I came to know that without talking to him and spending time with him I feel lost. I think I am in love with him or is it just an infatuation. How can I express it to him? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=603/how-to-tell-him-that-i-love-him Thu, 22 Mar 2018 11:04:04 +0000 How to end things with your love without hurting them much http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=566/how-to-end-things-with-your-love-without-hurting-them-much Can anyone telll me how can I break things with him and not hurt him much? Please help!! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=566/how-to-end-things-with-your-love-without-hurting-them-much Fri, 09 Mar 2018 15:10:57 +0000 Does true love exist? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=560/does-true-love-exist Does true love really exist? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=560/does-true-love-exist Sat, 03 Mar 2018 11:18:13 +0000 How do you know if a boy loves you? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=556/how-do-you-know-if-a-boy-loves-you How do you know if a guy loves you? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=556/how-do-you-know-if-a-boy-loves-you Mon, 26 Feb 2018 11:26:28 +0000 Perfumes To Turn Him On http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=554/perfumes-to-turn-him-on <p><span style="color:rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family:verdana,arial,sans-serif">Hi ladies,</span><br><span style="color:rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family:verdana,arial,sans-serif">Most of us wear perfumes and I was curious to know if there was any special perfume brand that has turned your man on ? I have tried some of the perfumes which are good but May be not great on getting my husband's attention. At work or in some other place I have been taken aback by how awesome some people smell. So, please do suggest or list on any gr8 perfumes which has taken someone's attention.</span></p> Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=554/perfumes-to-turn-him-on Thu, 22 Feb 2018 11:01:20 +0000 I suspect that my partner is cheating on me. How do I confront him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=541/suspect-that-my-partner-is-cheating-on-me-how-do-confront-him I have sufficient proof that my partner is cheating on me. How do I confront him with that? I think he will manipulate me again like he does always. How do I get out of this relationship for I trust him no more? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=541/suspect-that-my-partner-is-cheating-on-me-how-do-confront-him Thu, 28 Dec 2017 11:42:02 +0000 Should I give my boyfriend a second chance? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=526/should-i-give-my-boyfriend-a-second-chance my boyfrnd, I caught him sexting with one of his friend. Do you think I should give him a second chance? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=526/should-i-give-my-boyfriend-a-second-chance Wed, 22 Nov 2017 16:06:22 +0000 How do I tell my parents that me and my brother-in-law are in love with each other? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=475/how-tell-parents-that-and-brother-law-are-love-with-each-other My family is old fashioned and they I think they don't agree for marriages with near relations. But me and my brother-in-law are in love with each other. I am afraid that they will not understand us and break us up.<br /> <br /> Please help. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=475/how-tell-parents-that-and-brother-law-are-love-with-each-other Sun, 20 Aug 2017 14:08:17 +0000 My husband wants a child. But I think we are not ready for it. How can I tell him without disappointing him? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=471/husband-wants-child-think-ready-tell-without-disappointing My husband wants a child.<br /> <br /> But I think we are not ready for it. How can I tell him without disappointing him?<br /> <br /> Please help!! Parenting http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=471/husband-wants-child-think-ready-tell-without-disappointing Wed, 09 Aug 2017 12:49:15 +0000 My best friend is having crush on the same person as me. What should I do?? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=470/my-best-friend-is-having-crush-the-same-person-what-should-do I am having crush on this guy but recently I came to know that my one of my best friends is also having crush on the same guy and they are very close to each other. <br /> <br /> What should I do? Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=470/my-best-friend-is-having-crush-the-same-person-what-should-do Tue, 08 Aug 2017 12:30:30 +0000 I am having trust issues with my boyfriend! Please help!! http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=460/i-am-having-trust-issues-with-my-boyfriend-please-help I have trust issues with my boyfriend from day one of our relationship. Please help! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=460/i-am-having-trust-issues-with-my-boyfriend-please-help Mon, 24 Jul 2017 07:49:33 +0000 My boyfriend is verbally very abusive and mistreats me. I don't know whether to stick to him or move on http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=450/boyfriend-verbally-very-abusive-mistreats-know-whether-stick I have been in a relationship for almost six years now. My boyfriend is verbally very abusive and mistreats me. I am struggling with depression because of this. He has short temper but he has been very helpful also over the years. I don't know whether to stick to him or move on. What do i do? I love him for sure. http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=450/boyfriend-verbally-very-abusive-mistreats-know-whether-stick Sat, 24 Jun 2017 11:02:46 +0000 My husband is a workaholic http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=427/my-husband-is-a-workaholic My husband has no time for me at all. He says he is building his future but in the process i am left unwanted and uncared for. There is no quality time that we share and living with him has just become a burden. What do I do? Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=427/my-husband-is-a-workaholic Wed, 15 Mar 2017 10:47:39 +0000 Valentines day question http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=415/valentines-day-question Hi all! I know this is a women forum and I am a man but I have a question as I do not understand my girlfriend! :( It is valentines day today and she did not want to hang out with me, says she wants to spend time with her girlfriends?? Why is that? Should I be worried? Does she not like me? I thought valentines day is for couples and people in love??!!! Please help me understand!! Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=415/valentines-day-question Tue, 14 Feb 2017 14:28:25 +0000 My mother is losing her mental stability. What should I do? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=373/my-mother-is-losing-her-mental-stability-what-should-i-do My mother and my father do not share a good relationship and it has been ages, since when she has been providing for the family. My father does not help, because he is extremely egoistic and won't work under somebody at any cost because it doesn't serve his ego well.<br /> <br /> He has tried his hands at business and failed utterly, each time, because all he has is ideas which are no doubt brilliant but he is not practical enough to put those ideas to execution in the right way and he invariably gets into tiffs with his partners because they are the ones who are investing money as he has no capital and thus will want my dad to work as per their terms, whether subconsciously or consciously, the situation always takes this turn and that is when he quits.<br /> <br /> This has been a huge setback for my family. My dad is disrespectful of my mother because of his insecurities, does not acknowledge her efforts and is dominating to an extent where he never accepts his faults and ends up hurting my mother, disregarding everything she does for the family. He keeps saying that he can take away her job any time he pleases and that because he does not want to work as he is too qualified to work under somebody in a junior position is why he has got her to work.<br /> <br /> As you can make out, how hurtful such statements and how extremely painful it gets for my mother to hear to such things. They constantly quarrel whenever they talk, so they don't even talk to each other too much.<br /> <br /> But this has taken a huge toll on my mother and is getting worse by the day. She has stopped going anywhere, where my dad must accompany and it includes all kinds of social gatherings, even weddings of close ones. She says she doesn't feel like going anywhere with him and she has secluded herself from everything so much that she doesn't even go out and socialize. She doesn't spend money on herself and only saves up for my future and for their old age. She tells me that she is tired of the job she is doing. She is tired of compromising on the luxuries of life. She can't deal with office politics anymore but only because my father doesn't have a job is why she has to tolerate all sorts of stuff because she can't afford to lose the job.<br /> <br /> It hurts me too much to have to watch my mother go through such a turmoil. My dad hangs out with his friends, and has an active social life, but my mother does all the worrying about the future and it is eating into her. Talking to my dad is not even an option. He is not the one to understand and take a step, if he had to, he would have by now. I am a 22 years old woman. I barely earn something out of writing articles online, and my mother gives me the rest which I try to save as much as possible.<br /> <br /> I can't wait to get a job myself but this emotional trauma that my mother is going through and the way it has affected her is getting too much for me to bare.<br /> <br /> Please help. Please kindly tell me how to help my mother go about it. Family and Relationships http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=373/my-mother-is-losing-her-mental-stability-what-should-i-do Mon, 23 Jan 2017 12:54:43 +0000 Is it mandatory for a virgin to bleed after the first time of having sex? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=351/is-mandatory-for-virgin-bleed-after-the-first-time-having-sex Hi I am 16,<br /> <br /> I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and neither did it hurt me so much nor did I bleed. I want to know if I am alright and whether I have actually lost my virginity or not. How to understand whether I have really lost my virginity? Sex and Foreplay http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=351/is-mandatory-for-virgin-bleed-after-the-first-time-having-sex Fri, 13 Jan 2017 14:34:01 +0000 My boyfriend watches too much of porn. Is that normal? http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=350/my-boyfriend-watches-too-much-of-porn-is-that-normal Hi I am a 19 year old girl in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. He is a year and a half older to me.<br /> <br /> He has the tendency of staying up late in the night and watching movies regularly. I feel this strange insecurity over his watching porn on a regular basis. It makes me feel as though he is up to no good and might end up cheating on me because sex is constantly on his mind and I can't practically give him sex day in and day out.<br /> <br /> I need to feel love and affection. I need to miss him, want him, in order to have sex. But he is more horny than affectionate. Is porn unhealthy for a relationship? Please help. Love and Breakup http://forum.womennow.in//?qa=350/my-boyfriend-watches-too-much-of-porn-is-that-normal Fri, 13 Jan 2017 14:26:32 +0000