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My boyfriend and I have been together since school. Right now we are pursuing graduation from two different colleges. We have constant arguments and brawls but still have not managed to separate. We have been together for 4 years. However, for the past few days I had been sensing a strange distance from his side, until I found out one day that he was virtually having sex with a married woman online. He spoke, video chatted and sex chatted with her even as we were meeting, also making love. It completely broke me. He is sorry for what he has done. He is begging for forgiveness and says that he doesn't want me to forcibly make a decision as to whether to accept him or not, but that he'd be grateful if I did. Can he cheat on me again provided I forgive and accept him right now?
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If u ask me then i would suggest you not to trust him again people who cheat never change and for you? Nah never im saying this from my own personal experience i know how u must be feeling i have already been through this and even still struggling bt still i woukd suggest you dnt give him another chance this is for your own sake he will always take you for granted and he will never change cheaters and change
Bt still its all upto you do as u want bt just keep my words in your mind

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No offence to the person who posted this question. But do you really need advice or suggestions on this?!
There is no real or virtual cheating. It is "cheating" or in a more refined way, "infidelity".  You need to understand that and move on. It might be painful but that is the only way to go about it. You cannot trust this person anymore and if you do so, you are doing yourself a disservice.
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When someone cheats on you (virtual or in reality), chances are they'll do it again. I understand that 4 years of a relationship is a lot to let go off but I'd advise you to dump him because if you give him another chance at this, he'll make sure that he doesn't get caught the next time.
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People make mistakes. period.Maybe to him, it was just like watching porn, and he didn't feel like he was cheating on u with this.my logic might be a bit screwed up, but I dun think this is reason enough to leave someone with whom u had been for such  a long time
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No,he shouldn't be forgiven .For these kind of people we tend to lose trust in relationships.If he is forgiven now,this shows that the girl is settling down for someone unworthy .Forget and don't forgive.
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A cheater is a cheater, virtual or otherwise. Besides, he cheated on you virtually, what's to say he hasn't physically? Get out while the pain is still minimal. You deserve better.
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Obviously he can cheat..give him another chance at your own risk
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A glass once broken cannot be fixed. Same goes for a relationship. But yes..exceptions have been there. It totally depends upon the situation and the two beings involved in it.
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I feel he lacks a proper sex life,that is the reason he went online to crave sexual pleasure online because he does not want to hurt you.I feel 4 years is a long time and it definitely worth another chance.Go for it because love is hard to find.
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How can he make love with her when you are there???
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If he truly is sorry, then you might forgiv him.
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