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Honestly, it is outside the realms of my understanding that why men find sex during periods gross. My boyfriend is one of them. He restrains from having sex during my periods. Sometime he even acts as if he is convinced but when it is the actual time to have it, he makes some or the other excuse. I am  shy in having detailed sex talks with him as I am very sheepish in nature. Although I have managed to communicate that I am interested in having sex during my periods but he is very disinterested. I usually have uncontrollable urge to have sex during periods and I am clueless on how to put it up that sex during periods is safe and how do I eliminate the uncomfort in his mind about this whole thing. As I do not want him to forcibly have it with me. Please give me advice on this.
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Sex during periods is pretty intense. It depends on how close both of you are and how accepting he is of your body. However if you are grossed by it or if you find it discomforting, let him know your concerns.
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Sex during menstrual cycle can be much more pleasurable and enjoyable than normal sex. Try making him understand that menstrual material is sterile and  penetration will be more smooth. Also, you will also be free from possible pregnancy. Sex during periods is a great way to reduce period cramps and eliminates uneasiness of pelvic congestion. If all your efforts have gone futile, then I would suggest be open and ask him if he can fullfill your desire. Even if it is a little forced, what if he actually falls in love with it after experiencing it once.
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Do you usually bleed a lot when having your period? Often it is the risk of having blood everywhere that is turning guys off.

Also you might want to start off with oral sex and turn him om more did you try?
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