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asked Jan 12 in Love and Breakup by anonymous | 2,103 views
First, think for some time alone y u are not ready and what making you to take decision ....second thing talk to him about all the issues and then if u think ou need some time then he ll b with you as a support and will wait for you ....its worth discussing over the issues calmly with him rather than overthinking because you both understand each other in better way .....he ll b with you no matter what and try to slive your problem as well but i would like to add one more thing is that the first question you ask from yourself is that can you live without him ? During these days we get nervous that what will happen and all and let me tell you everyone got nervous for marraige but once everything will settle down then you ll get to know its just your feat if your answer is yes He is the one you want to spend whole life with then go for it only lucky ones get this opportunity and be confident
First, think for some time alone y u are not ready and what stopping you to take decision ....second thing talk to him about all the issues and then if u think u need some time then he ll b with you as a support and will wait for you ....its worth discussing over the issues calmly with him rather than overthinking because you both understand each other in better way .....he ll b with you no matter what and try to solve your problem as well but i would like to add one more thing is that the first question you ask from yourself is that can you live without him ? During these days we get nervous that what will happen and all and let me tell you everyone got nervous for marraige but once everything will settle down then you ll get to know its just your fear if your answer is yes He is the one you want to spend whole life with then go for it only lucky ones get this opportunity and be confident

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Well that sure is a tough one, but relationships and marriages are about both the parties involved. If you aren't up for something you won't be able to give it your 100% and that would lead to strain in the future. A healthy relationship is one where we understand each other and only when a couple is able to do that can they achieve a happy life together. Don't force yourself into something you know you are not ready for just to please him. Talk and make him understand why you chose what you did. I'm not saying that things can't take a bad turn because they can. But you need to take a stand for yourself here because only if you do it now will you be able to establish yourself as an equal and not a subordinate. If he does love you enough to want to marry you, he'll wait till you are ready.
answered Jan 12 by Anmol Raina
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Just tell him that you need some more time. If he truly loves you...he will wait. And, if he doesn't , you have better options ahead. But never step into a relationship if you're not ready. That makes it worse.
answered Jul 24 by anonymous
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